A calm place to work through what's hard.

I'm Sarah, a therapist in San Diego. I see adults across California by video for relationships, life transitions, anxiety, and depression.

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Let's talk this week. It starts with a short, free call.

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Meaningful therapy, for all of California

Who I work with

Journeys we might take together

Most of my clients are women in their mid-⁠20s through 40s. If you're a man wondering whether I'm a good fit, I've worked with many men, including at a men's recovery center, and I'd be glad to hear from you.

  • Relationships

    You keep having the same argument, or you're not sure whether to stay. We'll look at what's underneath the pattern and what you actually want.

  • Life transitions

    A move, a breakup, a new job, a loss. Big changes can leave you unsure who you are on the other side. I help you find your footing.

  • Anxiety and depression

    The worry that won't switch off, or the heaviness that makes ordinary days feel like a lot. We'll work on what keeps it going and what helps you feel steadier.

  • Grief

    Losing someone, or something, and finding that the world expects you to be fine sooner than you are.

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You don't have to have it figured out before you reach out. We can start from wherever you are.

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A note from Sarah

I became a therapist because I believe people change most inside relationships where they feel safe and taken seriously. In our sessions you'll find someone who listens closely, asks honest questions, and doesn't rush you.

I draw on approaches with evidence behind them, like cognitive behavioral and acceptance-based work, and I shape them around your situation rather than the other way around.

I grew up near Seattle and went to the University of Washington, then came to San Diego for graduate school at the University of San Diego. Before opening my private practice, I spent five years working in drug and alcohol recovery.

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Getting started

Insurance

I'm in-network with Blue Shield of California and out-of-state Blue Shield plans, as well as Aetna. If you have a different PPO plan, you can use your out-of-network benefits to get reimbursement for a portion of the cost. Either way, I'll help you check before we begin.

  • Blue Shield of California
  • Out-of-state Blue Shield plans
  • Aetna
Private pay

If you'd rather pay directly, sessions are $175. I also hold a limited number of reduced-fee spots. If cost is what's standing in the way, please ask.

It all starts with a 15 minute conversation.

I'm committed to helping you find the right care quickly. Tell me a little bit about what's going on and I'll be in touch within a business day.